Dylan is 9
It’s hard to believe #mrdylanarcher is turning 9 this weekend! It’s all so amazing and a little heart wrenching at the same time.
Two weeks ago he decided he no longer wanted to hug me at the bus stop before school insisting it’s now “embarrassing.” I respect his boundaries and understand it’s nothing personal, but just a sign of the times. Still seeing my son straddle the line between childhood and adolescence and his new found independence hurts my heart a little because whether he is 9 or 99, he will always be my baby boy.
Tonight however he quietly approached me and asked for a hug and we held each other tight and I didn’t take a moment for granted as hugs are fewer and farther in-between, but even more special now when they do happen.
On Sunday we will be in full celebration mode however; tonight I’m allowing myself a little cry and to feel all the feels. Parenting is so bittersweet as we carry the tension of letting them go all whilst wanting to hold them close.